October 14, 2017

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Intro to BDSM – What is it? What does it stand for?

Let’s start off with some basic info, shall we?  What does BDSM stand for and what does it mean?  BDSM is short for any or all of the following: bondage and discipline; dominance and submission; sadism and masochism. We have hundreds of live bdsm chat rooms that explore this in depth.

Now that we’ve got the official definition set, what does all that mean?  The short version is that it’s a type of sex play that involves one partner being dominant over the other.  This can be expressed in various ways, depending on you and your partner’s comfort level.  You can be the dominant one, the submissive one, or you and your lover can switch off.  It just depends on what turns both of you on.

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Perhaps the best way to illustrate BDSM is with some examples.  We’ll start with bondage.  There are a variety of ways to use bondage including ropes, zip ties, handcuffs, duct tape, etc.

Discipline is just what it sounds like.

The dom/dome (dominant partner) will teach you what they want you to do, what you are not allowed to do, and even how to address them.  If you make a mistake and misbehave they will punish you.  The most popular way to do this is with spankings.Our bdsm chat host will tell you to bring a slipper, ruler or belt to the webcam show so she can watch as you spank yourself and count for her live.

Dominance and submission is a little game you can play where one of you is “in control” of the other.  This is not a “real-life” situation.  Both you and your partner are agreeing to let one person be in charge in the bedroom.  Do not assume that because the sub is consenting to the dom’s wishes for sex that the dom should actually try to control a sub in other areas of life!

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This is for partners where one enjoys pain and the other enjoys inflicting pain.  Like dominance and submission, this is for the bedroom only!  Pain and inflicting pain should be something that turns you both on.  You and your partner can decide how much pain you like with your pleasure.  Light S & M can just be some spanking with your hand. When you enter the live bdsm chats you are quickly greeted with knowledgeable Mistresses and Dominas who live the lifestyle.

If you or your sub like to get a little rougher some interesting options include spanking with a paddle, whipping and even playing with needles.  Your level of intensity can be explored at your discretion.  One important thing to always remember during this little game is to ALWAYS have a safe word!

You or your sub may say things like “no,” “stop,” or “help” as part of the game.  Choose a word or phrase that would have no place to indicate that you want to stop.

Random example: “cheeseburger.”

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This will alert your partner that you are uncomfortable with the level of pain you are experiencing.  This is especially important if you’re combining bondage with S & M, as your movements may be restricted in such a way that you cannot give physical cues to tell your partner to stop.

If you’re interested in BDSM and are not sure where to start, online Mistress cams who will communicate with you via webcam is a great introduction!  These powerful women are already familiar with all kinds of kinks and nothing you can say will shock them.

If you want to try BDSM but are a little shy or don’t know how to bring it up to your partner, ask your Mistress!  If you want to try BDSM with a professional Mistress in person, but are nervous, talk to your Mistress about it! You can check out the bondage and discipline cams here

Or maybe you just want to keep your submissive nature a secret between you and your online Mistress.  There are so many reasons you might want to start off with a webcam Mistress, all very valid.  You can feel free to talk to her about all your kinks and fetishes without fear of judgment. click that’s is you in your chastity and she now controls your dick, your orgasm, your cums, welcomes to hell slaves enjoy your cruel chastity cam sessions and being under her strict control for life

Once you’re comfortable with your Mistress you can even play together!  She can teach you self-bondage, command you to inflict pain on yourself to turn her on while she watches, tell you how to discipline yourself properly, and so much more!  This is a great, safe way to experiment with BDSM on a less intense level than having your Mistress in the room with you.  No one but you and your Mistress will ever have to know!

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You might be ready to jump right in and find a Mistress in real life, and that’s great, too!  If you have a wife or girlfriend, or even casual sex partner that you trust, that would be the best place to start.  Ask her if she might be interested in sexually dominating you.

This can be a difficult question to ask if you’re shy or embarrassed by your BDSM fetish.  The worst thing she can say is that she’s not into it.  Ideally, you feel comfortable to have an open discussion about your fetishes and fantasies.  You might find that she’s totally into it, or at least willing to experiment and see how it goes.

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If you’re single or looking for an in-person Mistress outside of your relationship, it’s hard to know where to start.  Don’t worry, you have some great options!  Firstly, check out your local BDSM club.  Do some research online and find out where it is.  These clubs may have “munch meetings” where you can find an experienced Mistress in your area. Or of course, you can test out the bdsm chat section where we have hundreds of these online women waiting to train and discipline you

You can also find a Mistress online.  Check your local publications and see if anyone is advertising her services.  A Mistress found online who is willing to meet up will very likely want some form of payment for her services, so just be aware of that.

Finding a Mistress online can be tricky because they are not all experienced professionals.  Talk to her a bit before deciding if you think she’d be a good fit for you.  If she’s not what you’re looking for don’t be discouraged, just move on to the next one!

Besides local publications, you can also check out websites like FetLife.com and CollarMe.com.  On these sites, you can chat with members who are interested in domination.  Both have free levels of membership which allow you to get to know a potential Domme before meeting up.

Chat with women you are interested in and find out what they like as well.  If they’re on a site like this, they definitely are sexually open-minded so don’t be shy about asking for what you want!

BDSM is a wonderful way to explore your fantasies with a partner and learn what it’s like to be dominated by a sexy, powerful woman.  With so many options available to you to dive into this new world, there’s nothing holding you back!

 

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